Another friends girlfriend has me pegged.

So I was talking to another friend at lunch today, He told me that when his girlfriend met me at the Christmas party, she thought I was gay. I just laughed it off and said "oh really".

This brings me to a question that maybe someone else reading this could help me out with. If in the last couple of weeks, two separate friends have come up to me with a statement that their wife/girlfriend thinks I am gay, but not asking the question themselves directly to me. Do you think it is their way of trying to ask me if I am gay?

Please respond and let me know what you think.

My friends wife knows

Well, I went to lunch with my friend B. we were talking, during lunch. He was telling me that his wife thinks I am queer. I laughed, and asked why that was. He said his wife heard the message I left him on my birthday to invite him to dinner. The message went as follows; "B I would like to cor-dually invite you to dinner at Tumbleweeds tonight." I guess the way I said it it was really soft spoken. She asked B who it was and he told her it was the guy you met at McDonalds the other day. She said, "you mean the one that was so soft spoken" He said yes, and he likes wine. I guess she said something like he must be queer. B was doing his best to defend me by saying something about having all these women falling all over me. LOL.

After he told me this I looked at him and said, its not the first time someone has called me queer and it won't be the last time. That was that, I think he was uncomfortable talking about it, and changed the subject. I think he is going to be the next person I tell, if for no other reason then to make his wife appear right. LOL.

Well that is it for today, I will keep up on this blog as more adventures unfold with one foot out of the closet.

My birthday

Wow, I am getting old. Well for my birthday one of my good friends decided to take me out and drink. I haven't had a good time hanging out with him in a very long time, ever since he got a girl friend outside of town. No big deal.

So we were sitting down on the bench seats waiting to be seated, being a small town the restaurants are really busy on Friday nights considering the lack of choices in this town. I am sitting there, listening to the conversation going on between my friends when J (we will just use initials for his sake) looked at me and said, "Whats on your mind?" I snapped out of my daze and said "noting". He asked me if I had finally found my Ted. I laughed, as I looked at him and said, you know the joke right.

Let me explain the joke. I was hanging out with a friend who no longer lives around here, but we were watching family guy. One of the skits, Bryan was singing "I know some day you are going to meet some body, who's pretty and funny, and his name is Ted". It was so funny, so that became a running joke between my group of friends at work.

I just laughed it off and we continued the conversation. I so wanted to tell him that I haven't found him yet. The rest of the night is kind of a blur after my fish bowl margarita and quite a few glasses of wine.

When I got home, one of my friends walked me up the steps and made sure I got into my apartment okay. When I got in, he started going through my DVD collection, he wanted to borrow a couple for the weekend to watch. I don't have a problem lending my dvds out to people I know are going to return them, especially my Pierce Brasnen movies. He then said something about borrowing some of my porn. I laughed and said, "you wouldn't like my porn". Wow last time I open my mouth drunk I thought after I said that, but nothing has been said about that. I think he has a good idea.

Well Bloggers, I hope I didn't bore you too much. If you don't like it leave me feedback. let me know.

First Blog

Hello Bloggers,

As my first blog, I just wanted to introduce myself. I am a 33 year old Commercial Diver, living in a small town in Western Kentucky. I am into scuba diving, geocaching, bowling, disc golf, golf, and a whole lot more.

This blog is going to be dedicated to my adventures and journey as I start to come out of the closet. So far so good. Everyone I have told have been real supportive of me, and my relationships with those people have only gotten better.

I don't want people I tell to say okay, good for you, and kind of skate around it and never talk about it. I love who I am and I have no problems talking to anyone about myself.

Well there it is my first blog. Hope you enjoyed, and I hope you will come back and continue to share my adventure with me.